Sunday, March 28, 2010

When someone cares for you, how do you react ?

When someone you know, cares for you by simply asking, "Hei, you look moody today?"
What is your reply ? Usually it depends on how close the two person's relationship is.
If a wife ask her husband and he replied very rudely, it is normal. (haha). However if a friend ask you and your reply is rather rude, then it is time to re-consider how you should reply your friend, if not : it can mean *not rightful speech* as in buddhism or you come across as someone with a sharp and blunt mouth. Then in future, no one is ever going to ever ask you, "Hei, have you taken your dinner or are you ok ?"
The way we speak sometimes tell or reveal the soul that is trapped in us. The soul can be a happy one if one knows how to *transform our mind* by making sure that whatever outcome it is, we stay positive. Example: like when we were waiting for our son's O level or A level results.......or by *transforming our mind* so that we can look deeper, feel deeper into things and make sure we stay happy and positive whatever the outcome.
And never never ever give pressure to our children (although we may have BIG plans for our kids) or for even for our other half. We seldom give pressure to our friends because friends remain in the *outside circle* of our lives. family members still comes in to the core of the circle, the dot.
Learning how to speak or reply to someone is a very important tool in society especially when you work for a living or unless you are your own boss but when you are your own boss, you even have to be more mindful with with your mouth for fear of scaring away all your customers. Then no customers, then how, eat grass (jia chow) eh ? you want ? hehe
So, do be mindful of what words that come out of your mouth, they are an extension of your mood and soul inside you. I write here is because I teach and share whatever knowledge that I know of be it right or wrong, you be the judge.
When I practise selflessness, would you ever know ? maybe only time will tell.........if I am true to my words and actions. I even do fengshui for a song, would you believe it or quote a lady client just S$1/- ! she accepted and in the end paid me S$50/- and I was so ever grateful. Life is about money, yes but not to the extent that money always come out of your mouth, ok ! there are some things that money can't buy like the respect from your clients or the respect from your children. Treat your child with respect and they will respect you back.
FSQ NOTE: A lady client recently came to my new office and told me that I hardly write in my blog and I apologised and smiled and said ok, I will try to write more.
This is because once I started playing games in Facebook, my system change and time to do this and that changed too, plus now tues and thurs, I have class at ABC for Special Insights by Geshe-la and is so so interesting and so mind bogging that I said wow, this is *chim* (hokkien) but it is the only way to enlightment, so I must go. When I am there, I noticed the space between my eyebrow moved and throbbing, just like when I was in Nepal. I felt it again and I love this feeling and want more......
Find the time, sleep less and go ! unless I have a early talk the next morning at 9.30am or an important client meeting then I have to skip, if not, no excuse. And so I went, out of 6 classes, I managed to attend 3. Not bad lah considering early months of the year, Geomancers are usually at their busiest ;)

Friday, March 26, 2010

Prime Magazine March/April 2010 Issue

Hi, I am on the Front Cover of Prime Magazine March/April 2010 Issue. You can buy them from major bookstores or alternatively call them at : 6280-6690 to order your copy with your credit card and the magazine will soon be on its is so easy.
Currently, I write for them so do order for a whole year or more !
FSQ NOTE: I would like to thank all my supporters/fans who ordered this issue and for supporting me all these years. It's been a long 20 years........and as long as I still breathe, I will write for you.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Going to Ladakh in June 2010

Hi, I will be travelling to Ladakh with a group of friends for my June Retreat from 7 June to 16 June 2010 (12 days).
It has yoga, Ayurveda healing and meditation. There are limited *seats* available so anyone who wishes to go, kindly contact : Evelyn at : 968-5422, Kim at : 9852-1979.
Cost : US$1950/-

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Photos taken when I was in KL, recently

FSQ NOTE: Hi, if you have never been to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, well you should. Try going around KL by day and by night - there is this seemingly big difference and very very pleasant plus charming. I love Malaysia !!!
Thank you for making "The Fengshui Savy Investor" number one in Google search engine for "Singapore Fengshui Blog". we are still at number one ! Wow, fantastic !!! Love you all !!!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

50 Plus Expo 2010 : Come and Support us !!!

FSQ NOTE: Hi, if you are free on 3rd or 4th April 2010 do come and support us at the Seminar : 50Plus Expo 2010 particulary if you are free on 4 April Sunday at 2pm. Do come and support me ! See you there !!!

My latest update :

Just back from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia in early March and tomorrow going to have a speaking assignment invited by KC Dat (Asian Tigers) to deliver a talk on "Fengshui and Your Home" and to warmly welcome the expats' wives here to Singapore.

Today, 16 March 2010, just signed and paid up for a Ladakh 12 days retreat with a group of close friends and yesterday, 15 March 2010, we also invested in an IT Company as their shareholder though we have been their Fengshui Advisor the last few years. Your Sucess, Our Passion.